Anger will not solve your problems
its just put oil into it …
it just burn it up… it just make it worse!!!
& as most of people know that .. they kept being angry ..with easiest situations ..with simple arguments !!
they just boil it up ..instead of a deep good discussion ..somehow they turned their ego on & up ..increase its level ..and then boom the situation gets worse !!!
they just boil it up ..instead of ignoring the ignorant person that showed up from
nowhere & want to turn their day ( & or maybe their life ) up side down ..instead of brush it off ..they take it personally ..& that tiny moment build up to something that cover that day and turned it down !!!
nowhere & want to turn their day ( & or maybe their life ) up side down ..instead of brush it off ..they take it personally ..& that tiny moment build up to something that cover that day and turned it down !!!
those people still don’t know that… they can train them selves to calm them selves down ..to not be anger ..!! they think that they were born with that trait …and that its all ..its just their personality and they can’t do anything with it !
But no ..its completely wrong !!!..imagine …like .. how you learn to walk ..to move on your legs ..to speak !!!! yesss thats exactly the same ..u can train your self ..to not be anger ..learn how to brush things off ….how to ignore ..how to be more calm & more understandable ..its o.k to be angry ..but its not o.k to make it and take it as a part of your personality …to be angry at everyone , at any age & at different situations ..this is not cool at all ( if you think of it as that )
instead ..what about thinking the opposite ..like when these kind of situations happen ..then ask your self this Q ..in oppose to be angry ..what can i do to solve this situation ..what i have to do to come up with a solution !????
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well ..this change in the attitude will not happen in just one day ..you have to train your self and be patient with it ..cause this is also ..one of the important skills in your life ..& by learn it you will save up more energy , time and relationships ..!!!! believe it or not ..!!
what about to try that out ..
will u accept this challenge ??!!!
Be Cool ..Be Chill ..!
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